THE AFTERMATH

In the aftermath of "The Itch" saga, my husband Karl and I talked quite a bit about the various ramifications of my desire to train a novice once again, his acceptance of same, and his expressed desire to experience novice-type training at the hands of a different Femdom.  In the end, I decided that it was simply impractical to allow him to to re-trained. He'd already been trained by me when he was a novice seven years ago, and it seemed artificial to me to expect him to forget all of his training and start anew with someone else, pretending, as it were, that he was a novice once again.  It was not at all the same as my desire to train an actual novice who would be experiencing submission for the first time.

However, it seemed to me that his desire reflected a "me too" attitude, which was understandable as a reaction to my itch, but more importantly it showed that something might have been missing in our current lifestyle, and that perhaps we had reached something of a ho-hum situation.  For that, I had to blame myself, having said numerous times that the Dom in a relationship bears about 95% of the responsibility for keeping things fresh and exciting.  With that in mind, I informed Karl that he would not be re-trained as a novice, but that I would take matters into hand and extend his current and ongoing  training as a sub to a new level.  That new level was to be slavery.

We'd explored slavery before in the form of several slave weekends that had proven to be highly intense for both of us, but this had occurred only a few times in all the years we'd been married.  Planning and carrying out these weekends was not an easy task for me, and enduring them was not an easy task for Karl, but if we had indeed reached a ho-hum level, it just might prove to be the fuel we needed to get the engines going once again.  This was not to be full time slavery, but it would occur at least once a month and would require Karl to be totally in my control 24 hours a day for at least 3 consecutive days each month.  I would also be using the talents of my Femdom friends as "helpers" and participants during these days.

Karl seemed very excited at the prospect, but I advised him to remember well what he'd experienced during these weekends, and to expect no less of an ordeal than he'd previously gone through, and most likely some painful additions as well.  If I were going to put forth the effort, so would he, and then some, plus my "helpers" would also have much more latitude than they'd previously enjoyed.  I also planned to allow my co-Doms  quite a bit of alone time with my newly enslaved husband, often at their homes.

As I said to Karl, "You wanted to be re-trained, and so you shall.  Who knows - I might enjoy it so much that we can extend your slave periods to a week or more each month.  After all, you wanted some new training, right?"  To which he responded with a bit of a gulp, "Yes, Your Highness."  I was amused that he remembered the proper term for addressing me when he was in slave mode, and I was also amused to see his cock at full mast while we talked

I told him to expect his first session in November, and I went on the prowl for two things.  One, the equipment I needed as a slave master, and the friends I wanted involved; and two, venues from my past that I used to haunt when seeking out a new submissive.  The former proved much easier than the latter, as my friends were more than happy to participate and willing to add their "equipment" to the proceedings.  I do have to look around for a new chastity device.  I want a very small one that would be extremely restrictive and not allow even a modicum of a hard-on for my slave.

As for my old, familiar haunts, many have ceased to exist so that's proving much harder.  For the moment, I'm frequenting places that my friend Vanessa prefers, though I've never been a big fan of s/M specific clubs.  A bit too much leather for my taste, and often there are men dominating women, which I don't like to be around.  Upper end nightclubs are more my style, and I'm currently exploring the latest crop of same.

So that's where things stand for now.  More as it occurs.