Monday, December 22, 2014

GOOD NEWS/BAD NEWS

A quick update on what's going on brings me to the good news first.  Karl's first slave weekend (three days, actually) went quite well.  The ladies and I decided to "take" Karl for one day apiece as sort of a "preview of things to come" exercise.  I took the first day and spent most of the time re-training Karl with a constant barrage of orders to follow, with emphasis on his immediate and enthusiastic response to whatever I told him to do.  He was in his chastity, which remained locked for all three days, naked with short chains between his ankles and wrists, and a ball collar and neck collar, both with leash attachment capabilities.

I ran him ragged serving me in every possible way, requiring him to micro clean various areas of the house and do a variety of household chores such as washing, ironing, folding and putting things away, etc., to the accompaniment of the liberal use of my riding crop whenever he lagged a bit.  My verbal orders were loud and constant, and he wasn't allowed to speak unless given permission.  I remained fully dressed, and the few resting periods he was allowed was spent in service as my footrest, boot licker, and sometimes corner dweller with nipple clamps and ball weights to provide a little spice to his "resting" times.

He spent the evening in his basement cage, and early the next morning I took him into our garage, removed his chains and collars, leaving him naked except for his chastity, put him in the trunk and drove him to Patsy's house.  She also has a garage, and I dropped him literally at Patsy's feet for his next day of slavery.

According to what I was told later by both Patsy and Karl, Patsy started his day by administering a sound beating to his ass with her strap as a testament to what was to come if he failed to please her.  She then dressed him in attire appropriate to a Lady's handmaiden, circa the nineteenth century, complete with bonnet and maid's uniform, and proceeded to apply makeup to his face as only Patsy can do.  She took a photo of "Karlotta" as she called him, and it was quite astonishing to see his transformation.  She spent most of the day instructing him as to proper comportment for a Lady's maid, with emphasis on curtsying and feminine style movements and speaking patterns, constantly fine tuning him and punishing any missteps on his part with her strap.

He was taught to serve his Princess Patsy as a handmaiden in every way imaginable, and was at her beck and call constantly when not cleaning her private quarters, making and unmaking her bed over and over for practice, and learning where her clothing was kept, proper folding, hanging, etc.  She used a bell to call him when she needed him elsewhere, and he quickly learned to listen well for that bell or suffer the consequences.  By day's end, he was quite the little handmaiden, flushed cheeks (above and below) included.  He spent the night in her private bathroom with instructions to clean and polish all the hardware (toilet, faucets, wash bowl, porcelain lined cast iron tub, mirrors, etc.) in the bathroom and grab any sleep he could as long as the job was done properly.

The next morning, all of his makeup and clothing was removed, and Patsy brought him to Vanessa's house the same way I'd brought him to Patsy's, dumping him at her feet in her garage.  I'm going to save the description of what happened at Vanessa's for a later time, as it's quite involved and has caused some serious issues to be raised.  Suffice it to say that it was not what I expected.  More later.

As for the bad news, that would concern my efforts to find a novice sub to train.  Putting it simply, I've had no luck finding the right sub, despite many hours spent in both vanilla night clubs and s/M gathering places.  The latter establishments have been especially disappointing, as I'm constantly approached by all too eager males who already have some history of serving dominant women and know what they're after in terms of dominance.  They are all, in one way or another, attempting to top from the bottom, as if they're interviewing me instead of the opposite.  Very annoying, and it's caused me to stop going to such establishments.

I well remember how I found Karl (and several others) in a vanilla jazz club, and that's definitely my preferred venue.  The trouble is that it takes time and luck to happen with the right man, and so far I've had no luck.  There are plenty of men offering to buy me a drink, but none yet have been sub material once we get down to the conversation part of things.  So I remain patient and hopeful, and continue to weave my web in hopes that the right fly will wander into it.  One thing for certain, any reasonably good looking woman will never have to buy her own drinks or remain horny if all she wants is a good fucking.  That hasn't changed at all.  But finding that latent sub who is eminently trainable is a bit more complicated.  I shall keep searching.

11 comments:

  1. The right lucky fly will definitely wander into your web, and probably never want to leave!Best of luck!

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  2. Thank you for sharing. Sorry to hear your search for a new trainee has not been going well. I can only imagine your frustration and disappointment. At least you seemed to have had an enjoyable weekend. I'm guessing it was a bit less so for Karl.

    Looking forward to hearing of Vanessa's day. Sounds a bit ominous.

    -e (FootSlaveE)

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  3. good to hear from You, dear Lady..
    as ii seems, things are going well.. The difficulties come in the long run.. but You know that D..
    As for finding a good subject.. hmm.. if leaving aside Luck, it may be useful to search in sport (fitness) clubs, dance clubs, etc. Men active in sport and physical exercise often have a submissive side in them.. a will to overcome their limits.. Take my word.. )..
    At least, a more traditional way could be writing an advert in such site as "Collarspace"...
    Well, ) a pity I'm not 30 anymore )
    Best regards and wishes of success!

    Alex

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  4. anon - Yes, it just requires some patience. Not a trait I have in abundance.

    e - Yes, Karl would have a very different view on his weekend. Especially the Vanessa part. I will get to that soon, hopefully.

    Alex - Thank you for the suggestions, but I can assure you that being over 30 would not be a detriment, at least from my point of view. Nearly all of my submissives have been older than me, except for my college days. Even then, I had a grand time with older men when not playing with students.

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  5. Lady Grey,
    I replied to one of your posts regarding “the itch” back in July (see below). At that time I was interested in helping you find a solution regarding getting Karl to understand your need. That posting wasn’t requesting a new inexperienced submissive, but instead a solution to getting Karl on board. After reading your latest entry, I would like to humbly offer myself as a potential candidate if you would allow me the honor of being interviewed for your novice sub position. I have never served a dominant woman before, but as I mentioned in my earlier posting it is my true calling. I too prefer vanilla settings when trying to meet a dominant woman, but have found that it is extremely difficult. I do not have the audacity to believe that I am worthy of your training, but I want you to know that my dedication and yearning to please you will always be my utmost priority. I have read your blog since inception and when you wrote about Karl’s early training it was one of the first times that I had faith that I could possibly run into someone like you in my life. That maybe there was hope for me to be able to fulfill the desires of a wonderful dominant woman and through her pleasure experience true bliss. I would like to provide you with any information that you would request. I promise to answer all questions as honestly as possible and want you to know that if we are not near one another, I would have no trouble travelling even for an interview. Although I am only 29 years old, like Karl, I am the CEO of my own successful company and would not mind having to fly to meet you. If given the opportunity I will work hard to try to prove that I will please you in any way that you request. My personal email address is paulmichael2727@gmail.com I can answer anything you would like and give you whatever contact information you need.

    Humbly,

    Paul

    I am a sexually submissive 28 year old male who still clearly remembers reading your very first blog post. I don't recall exactly how I came upon it. I am a big fan of Mark Redmond's Worshiping Your Wife blog and I know at one time he had a link to your site, so maybe that was it. At that time you were just getting started and I can't begin to tell you how much you spoke to me and seemed to understand my yearnings, thoughts, desires, and in many ways you helped me to embrace who and what I am. I was just getting out of a 7 year relationship with my high school sweetheart. I will always love her, but I realized that I was no longer in love with her. A major reason for this is that she didn't understand my sexuality.
    I remember eagerly anticipating your latest entries and wishing that I was Karl or someone as lucky as Karl to meet a wonderful dominant woman who knew what she wanted and helped teach me what I needed in this wonderful adventure that is life. You spoke to me so much so that I still check your blog at least once a week to see if there is a new post even though I have been fearful for months now that this blog would never have a new post.
    You are a married woman and I have no business taking away from Karl's happiness, but one way in which I think you could get him to understand your situation and maybe even embrace it is to explain to him that you saved him from a vanilla world that he probably never truly felt comfortable in. I share that same understanding of not feeling like the women in my life have taken me to where I want to be or embraced me for the loving submissive man that I can only now dream about being. Obviously, Karl loves you and wants you to be happy, but maybe he would feel less jealous about you training a submissive if he could understand that you would be saving another man and helping prepare him for a lifestyle under the control of a wonderful demanding woman. The same gift you gave him you would be sharing with another, all while not taking away what you both currently share.

    I hope that I have been of some help.

    Humbly,

    Paul Michael
    July 19, 2014 at 12:13 AM

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  6. Ach! very dear Lady! did this dumb Beast forget to mention the distance (Europe / France)?
    I'm afraid that obliges to leave the prospect in the dream box.. )

    Very best regards,

    Alex

    Ah, an amusing video here:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDIgL4NQbNA

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    I ignore how to join documents, otherwise I had the wish to send You a picture of this creature.. Just for the fun.. I'm sure Mr Karl would take no offense to that )

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  7. Lady Grey,

    I may have misunderstood, but if Alex is referring to me as a dumb beast, he is sadly mistaken. Although I am very submissive towards dominant woman, I take absolutely no disrespect from any males and am considered quite an Alpha in the business world. If he is speaking about me, which again may not be the case, I know that he would never do such a thing to my face.

    As far as leaving out where I am located, I was hoping that you would email me and I could answer any and all questions that you have. My only way to communicate with you at this point is via this blog. I do not know where you are located and do not feel that this is something you should have to share with me or any one else at this point. In case you are interested I am located in northern NJ (7 miles from Manhattan), but I travel the country for business.

    Humbly,

    Paul

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  8. After re-reading Alex's (anonymous) posting, I believe he was referring to himself and not I. If that is the case I apologize for wasting everyone's time.

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  9. Your last conclusion was correct Paul Michael.. ).. the dumb Beast indeed was a reference to my humble self )..
    To err is human.. D

    BestNew Year to all !
    )
    Alex

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  10. Paul Michael - I do thank you for your interest in serving me, but I never give out my email address, nor my personal address, via the internet. In addition, you live quite a distance from me, and the impracticalities of a long distance relationship are simply too many. I'm sorry that you haven't been able to satisfy your needs in your immediate geographic area, and I do wish you better luck in the future.

    Alex - A clever ad, but not the Dominant-centric one I imagined you'd send to me. Glad you could nicely apprise Paul Michael of his mistake.

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  11. Lady Grey - wishing you happy hunting.

    p
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