Tuesday, February 9, 2016

FORNIPHILIA

"FORNIPHILIA" is a fancy word that someone came up with to describe the use of humans as furniture.  When it comes to matters of Subjugation, Objectification and Indifference, there is no better way for combining all three.  There are plenty of photos of this particular form of Femdom pleasure on the internet, but a surprising number of "female as furniture" images as well, with both male and female Doms using women as their objects.  I say surprising because in nearly all other aspects of D/s, femdoms greatly outnumber maledoms in cyberspace, and I just don't empathize with women who need to dominate other women.  To each her own, I suppose.

Well, my pleasure has nothing to do with females being dominated in any way, so I'll be using males as furniture for this blog entry, period.  I have written about this before, but that particular entry has been deleted, and some of my commenters have asked me to broach the subject once again.  I'll begin with a photo that I find particularly endearing:



Here we have an excellent example of a man being used as a coffee table.  His position with his back on the floor is a practical one, and allows him to retain his posture for long periods, as opposed to having him on hands and knees in a "pushup" position that is much harder to maintain.  His elbows are pulled together somewhat, and seem to rest on his body, which gives him more stability.  The blindfold keeps out any extraneous things, but I personally prefer to have him able to see his situation, especially the classic indifference of his Dom.  Also, if it were my husband Karl (which it often is) he'd probably be wearing nipple clamps and have a rope attached to his ball collar that I could tug at will.  I sometimes attach one end of the rope to my foot, which has a habit of twitching at regular but unpredictable moments.  And, of course, I'd have a crop or switch handy just to make sure he wasn't bored.

The next photo shows the sub in a modified pushup position, in that he has a solid base that allows him to stay in his role as coffee table indefinitely:



I like the rope work shown here, as he paints a pretty picture as his Dom goes about her business.  I can't see whether he is blindfolded or not, but I'd suggest a shoe or two attached to his head so that the aroma can keep him company.

A male is often used as a chair under a Dom's body, but that can be quite uncomfortable after extended periods - for the Dom.  The uneveness of the male's body can have his chin or knees in awkward positions that prove quite bothersome for a Dom who just needs a comfy resting place.  In this photo, the Dom has cleverly avoided that situation, and I can see no reason that she'd be uncomfortable spending all day or evening using her male to support her in a style he's surely not accustomed to.  What fun she seems to be having!  See below:


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One can imagine that her shoes will probably come off as the day progresses, and she'll have a very handy foot worshiper at her beck and call.

Below is a photo I've used before.  This is a position that husband Karl is quite familiar with, though I usually have a phone in my hand for extended calls to my friends:




The big difference in our case is that he's usually hogtied with his wrists attached to his ankles.  Keeps him under just the right amount of tension and doesn't affect his ability to carry the weight as the time passes...and passes....and passes...

The whole concept of forniphilia rests on the idea of using your sub as an object.  He is totally subjugated and dehumanized and in no doubt as to his relative worth in the D/s dynamic.  That's a valuable lesson for him, and the fact that he's nothing more than a useful or decorative piece of furniture for extended periods helps his mindset remain in its proper place.  Below is yet another common example:

Multi purpose slave to serve the demanding Mistress

Here the male is a footrest and an ashtray holder.  He's naked and powerless and will undoubtedly be trying desperately to maintain his balance and his strength to satisfy his Dom.  I'm sure she knows that he will eventually not be able to maintain his position, and who knows what fate awaits him when he does collapse?  Makes me tingle just to think of it.

Finally, in a bow to the modern age, we have a male serving his Dom as a computer stand:

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I think this image is generated by a computer as well, and how nice that the modern world can create such images.  I do like the situation his cock finds itself in, as well as the handy spot for her crop.  I'm sure she'd be quite pleased to leave him in this configuration for a long time as she uses her computer on and off during the day or night.  Let's give a hand to modern uses of the male!

I'll stop here, though there is no end to the uses of men as furniture.  If you're a female reading this, I can assure you that it's a fun and valuable addition to your D/s reportoire.

9 comments:

  1. Thank you for this little insight into what it means to you to eb in possession of such furintiture.

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  2. Lady Grey - thank you for such an interesting post. I think I recall in one of your earlier posts you needed to punish Karl for some infraction. He had wanted to watch a special basketball or football game. His punishment was to be your foot stool as you watched the game; and you positioned Karl so that he could not view the game on TV. That was genius. I can only imagine his discomfort at missing the game and having to spend several uncomfortable hours as your piece of furniture. He is a lucky guy.
    tom

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  3. Very enjoyable post Lady Grey. Thank you. I do have a question though....You had a great posting a few years ago, which described your manipulation of Karl's friendship with 'Bill'. The posting was called Orchestration, and i found it to be be quite interesting. Has the relationship between Karl and Bill ever resumed? Have you spoken to Barb since?

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  4. anon - You're welcome.

    Tom - Yes, that was great fun for me and a good lesson for Karl. Denying him a chance to watch his game is a good example of how a point can be made without resorting to corporal punishment. Not that I have anything against corporal punishment, but it's nice to have options.

    anon - No, we have nothing to do with each other now, neither as couples nor as individuals. I try not to think about the situation a lot, as it was unpleasant for all concerned.

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  5. Use as furniture can be quite casual. On mornings after i serve my Mistress coffee in bed i am often required to lie across her lap so she can rest her coffee, newspaper, cell phone, etc, on my back, and of course at such times my bottom is conveniently located, should she choose to do my morning spanking in that position. Being used this way never fails to make me feel owned and deeply inferior. Thank you for a terrific post!

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  6. brian 1 - How convenient for her! I haven't tried this "lap tray" configuration for myself, but it sounds interesting. Is your morning spanking delivered by her hand, or does she use a paddle, hairbrush, etc? I'm a big fan of paddles. Karl isn't. What a shame.

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  7. very hot..........

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  8. Lady Grey, what a very insightful and interesting read.I'm reasonably new to the lifestyle and was wondering if you'd deem forniphilia more of a punishment or reward? Or perhaps somewhere in-between?

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  9. I wouldn't call it a reward for a sub, more of a challenge that I use for my personal amusement. It's not a punishment either. I can think of much more effective punishments. No, I'll stick with the "challenge for my amusement" idea, and it definitely amuses me to see him struggling to maintain a certain position while I do whatever I feel like, or nothing at all:)

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